Working with the boundaries of people pleasing


### Navigating the Challenges of Pricing, Employment, and Personal Growth


Hello everyone,


Today, I want to open up about some challenges I’ve been facing that many of you might relate to. As someone who has severe hearing loss, I often grapple with insecurities about my job security and the constant fear of being let go due to my condition. This anxiety has led to moments of panic and emotional distress, leaving me feeling overwhelmed.


One area that has been especially difficult for me is figuring out how to price my services when it comes to friends and family. I want to succeed and earn a fair wage for my work, but I also don't want to come across as greedy or cheap. Striking the right balance can be daunting, especially when these relationships are involved.


### Finding Your Niche


I’ve been reflecting on my desire to break free from traditional employment, especially after experiencing frustrations with bosses and “family-owned” businesses that didn’t always embody the values of true family. It’s made me realize that the conventional route isn't the only option. I want to carve out my own path—one where I can utilize my unique skills and experiences to create a fulfilling business.


### The Fear of Insecurity


The struggle with job security is a heavy burden. Each time I face a potential job loss, the anxiety of being misunderstood or facing barriers due to my hearing loss weighs on me. I know I'm not alone; many people with disabilities experience these fears. It’s essential to create an environment where our capabilities are recognized, and our voices heard, regardless of our challenges.


### Turning Anxiety into Action


In light of these experiences, I’m working towards channeling my frustrations into something productive. Here are a few strategies I plan to follow:


1. **Identify Your Value**: Take the time to reflect on what you offer. What skills make you unique? Understanding your worth can help in setting fair pricing without feeling like you're taking advantage of relationships.


2. **Clear Communication**: Discuss your pricing openly with friends and family. Transparency can help alleviate any worries they might have and can foster understanding.


3. **Build a Support Network**: Surround yourself with people who uplift you. Look for communities or mentors who share similar experiences or industries.


4. **Embrace Your Journey**: Remember that it’s okay to be scared. Your feelings are valid, and acknowledging them is the first step toward overcoming them.


5. **Explore Entrepreneurship**: Consider avenues for starting your business that align with your passions and skills. This can empower you to take control of your professional life and financial well-being.


### Conclusion


I want to remind anyone struggling with similar feelings that it’s okay to feel frustrated and scared but know that you have the strength to rise above it. You’re not alone in this journey, and your unique experiences are assets that can lead you to success. Together, let's find ways to turn our struggles into triumphs and create opportunities that reflect our true potential.


Thank you for reading, and I appreciate your support as I navigate this journey.



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