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Job stability and finding freedom with the time we all have left

February 14th  Lately, I have been thinking about not working for any employers anymore. I have found that every time I take a job, it never ends well. I’m afraid that I am the common issue. I don't know if I am diagnosed with anything, but I have heard I am eccentric, and I can't tell if that is a good thing or a bad thing. I can’t keep falling into the same patterns. I am TIRED.  I am also hard of hearing, which makes things worse. With Trump’s attacks on DEI, I worry that they will dismantle the Americans with Disabilities Act. God forbid that humans have flaws. I am just so tired. I have grown up in a family that will always love and protect me, but I feel bad. I don’t want them to think I am using them in any way. I tend to think negatively and seem to attract chaos for some reason.  I just don’t know anymore. What I do know is that I do not want to work with a boss or people again. I believe I will get hurt less in the end.

The Payments We Owe.

**February 12th** Today, I am working on my logo for a T-shirt to wear and advertise my business. I'm considering turning down the Krayden job if I am offered it; I've spent too much time worrying and letting jobs dictate how I spend my time. If I'm offered a position at Safeway in Superior, I may take it since it is part-time and allows me to focus on my dog business, which is more important to me. I want to have control over my life and my time. I’m tired of my neighbor taking advantage of me. I’ve finally decided that I don’t need to feel guilty about saying no to people who want to take advantage of my kindness. I confronted my neighbor, someone I’ve known for a while, and told her that her behavior has been unacceptable. It’s my business, and I have decided to ban her from it. The last time we had a disagreement, she didn’t pay for my services and even tried to call the cops on me when I confronted her about it. I’ve made the decision to steer clear of her from now on ...

Taking a small break to breathe

February 11th, 2025  Today, I took the day to clean the house while my husband is away. I usually do a refresh on Tuesdays instead of the weekend since we are all home, including our golden doodle. It's hard to exercise him in the winter, so we mostly just do potty breaks and play inside. I plan to increase my earnings with my business and write off certain items, like a baby gate and some toys for the dogs I board, but I really love house sitting the most. I enjoy seeing the pups and doing what I can to help families. So far, I’ve been distributing my business cards in more neighborhoods, which feels awkward at first.  I have an in-person third-round interview coming up, but I am still traumatized by past jobs; I kind of just want to focus on growing my business instead. I might go to the interview if it’s not snowing, but honestly, dealing with the trauma of work is just not appealing. Lately, it seems that my family life is improving, but I often feel conflicted. Whenever I...

Working with the boundaries of people pleasing

### Navigating the Challenges of Pricing, Employment, and Personal Growth Hello everyone, Today, I want to open up about some challenges I’ve been facing that many of you might relate to. As someone who has severe hearing loss, I often grapple with insecurities about my job security and the constant fear of being let go due to my condition. This anxiety has led to moments of panic and emotional distress, leaving me feeling overwhelmed. One area that has been especially difficult for me is figuring out how to price my services when it comes to friends and family. I want to succeed and earn a fair wage for my work, but I also don't want to come across as greedy or cheap. Striking the right balance can be daunting, especially when these relationships are involved. ### Finding Your Niche I’ve been reflecting on my desire to break free from traditional employment, especially after experiencing frustrations with bosses and “family-owned” businesses that didn’t always embody the values of...

Embark in the spirit

 February 6th 2025       Today marks the beginning of a new chapter in my life - one of independence and entrepreneurial spirit. As a dog lover and experienced pet sitter, I've decided to take the leap and become a full-time working dog sitter. For years, I've navigated the challenges of instability and unexpected career changes, including thoe resulting from my employers' lack of understanding and accommodations for my Hard of Hearing condition (HOH). However, these experiences have not only strengthened my resolve but also given me a unique perspective and skill set that will enable me to provide dedicated and compassionate care to furry friends and their families. I'm excited to embark on this exciting journey, where I can share my passion for animals with the world and build a business thats tailored to my values and strengths.